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The more I read the more I become terrified I am a narc. I

The more I read the more I become terrified I am a narc. I want so badly to bond with a romantic partner, but it's never happened reciprocal. The fact I've bonded to people but they never wanted to bond to me makes me scared there's something wrong with me. My therapist keeps telling me, "you have insecurities, but you are not the problem in this area", but I can't stop thinking I am. I guess the issue is more my selection criteria for a mate (Note: I'm reflecting. I am not in the state or stage to be searching for a partner). In my last relationship, i would have worked through anything. I think that would have been so bad for me, but I would have.

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Oct 11

I don't think you are a narc either and you should continue this journey of self discovery. That alone is something a narc would not do.

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[2015]
Oct 11

Harm can come in many forms: physical, emotional, financial, psychological, spiritual...

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[2015]
Oct 11

@NowImNarcFree True: "You may have other bad habits that draw you towards the wrong person, but these are things you can work on."

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